Discovery Is Never Ending
It would be so nice if I could take these Twelve Steps one at a time – in perfect order – and then never have to take them over again.…
Step Four
When I started attending Nar-Anon, I had a great deal of anger and held much resentment toward my addicted loved one. I blamed him for everything that happened. I felt that…
Hope
I started attending Nar-Anon meetings because everything that I had attempted to do in an effort to change my daughter had failed. My life was spinning out of control. During…
Awakening – My Disease
I did not realize that I was co-dependent. I took my boys to a concert, and I brought along a book on co-dependency. I bought a drink to relax and…
Never Alone
When I first came to a Nar-Anon meeting, I had plenty of doubts about the program. I did not believe the program or its members could help me. How could…
Fear
If I indulge in negative thinking, I work myself into anxieties about things that may never materialize. This behavior results in wasted worries and possible ill effects on me. I…
Mind My Own Business
In Nar-Anon, we learn that each person is capable of solving his or her own problems. When we lose control of our lives, it is often because we are too…
Benefits of Sponsorship
When I came to Nar-Anon I was alone, frustrated and confused. The members of my group welcomed me. I was happy to find that they cared about me and they…
Step Five
During my Fourth Step, I cleared the way for self-understanding by examining my strengths and weaknesses and listing them. Then I looked at Step Five and once again was intimidated.…
Making Judgments
I heard someone say, “human beings make mistakes but they are not the mistakes.” This made me wonder about all of the times I sat in judgment of the addict in my…