Just For Today
The topic of discussion at my meeting last night was “turning the corner.” I immediately thought of turning the corner in the future. In other words, what will the disease…
The Family
Addiction is a family disease. My children have suffered from the effects of another’s addiction. In Nar-Anon, I am learning this suffering can manifest itself in many ways. Some children…
Getting Better
I have learned that addiction is a disease. It may never go away, but with the help of my Higher Power, I can learn to accept it and then try…
We Are No Longer Alone
I do not seem to be able to think about anything but my loved one. I keep projecting all the “what ifs” and how my life “could have been.” All…
Recovery
Last night I read a newsletter published by Nar-Anon. The article listed some ways to get the most out of the Nar-Anon message. One that jumped out at me was…
Just Try It
When I first began coming to Nar-Anon meetings, a fellow with many years in a Twelve Step program would constantly remind me, “It’s about the steps. Use the steps.” I…
Taking Care of Me
I am finding that Nar-Anon can help me in all areas of my life, not just with addiction. My work is stressful and my many appointments require a tight schedule.…
Meetings
Attending Nar-Anon meetings has become a way of life for me. Whether I just show up and fill a seat, contribute by sharing, or just listen, I learn a lot…
Changing Ourselves
Addiction is like a chain reaction. It is a disease that affects the user and their family members, friends and co-workers. I tried to control, cover up, and take on…
Self-Pity
Self-pity is defined as “the self-indulgent belief that your life is harder and sadder than everyone else’s.” I spent many of my early Nar-Anon meetings overcome with self-pity. I was…